RYAN MURPHY
Conductor
RICHARD ELLIOTT
Organist
DERRICK PORTER
The Spoken Word
AMERICA THE BEAUTIFUL
Music: Samuel A. Ward
Text: Katherine Lee Bates
Arrangement: Mack Wilberg
SHENANDOAH
Music: American folk song
Text: American folk song
Arrangement: Mack Wilberg
RALLY ’ROUND THE FLAG (THE BATTLE CRY OF FREEDOM)
Music: George F. Root
Arrangement: Richard Elliott
ON THIS DAY
Music: Charles Strouse Text: Charles Strouse
Arrangement: Mac Huff
THE SPOKEN WORD
“Our Epitaph”
ONE PERSON, FROM DEAR WORLD
Music: Jerry Herman
Text: Jerry Herman
Arrangement: Ryan Murphy
GOD BLESS AMERICA
Music: Irving Berlin
Text: Irving Berlin
Arrangement: Roy Ringwald
OUR EPITAPH
The Spoken Word, May25, 2025
By: Derrick Porter
TODAY WE HONOR THOSE who have gone before us—especially those who have given their lives in the service of our country. We also honor all those whose lives have touched our hearts for good. Truly, the positive impact that one person can make on the life of an- other can be monumental.
Monuments and headstones marking a gravesite often have an engraved epitaph, forever stating a few words in memory of the deceased.
Mark Twain once quoted Adam at Eve’s grave, stating what might have been her epitaph. He said, “Wheresoever she was, there was Eden.”1 Of course this was fiction, but the words were tender and insightful nonetheless.
Looking ahead, what might our own epitaph read? Will it comment on our kind nature, our love for others, or our desire to be a peacemaker? Will it tell of our courage to stand strong when times are hard or of our patience enduring a lengthy trial?
Lloyd Newell once said: “Think of the people you most admire. Most likely it was not their accomplishments that touched your life but their acts of kindness, not their beauty but their big hearts, not their successes but their support. The same is true for all of us. What will be cherished is the difference we’ve made in others’ lives. What will be valued is the love and service we’ve offered. Remember, ‘A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you, and were helped by you, will remember you when forget-me-nots are withered.’”2
In a way, we each are writing our own epitaphs today. Our remembered acts may include a few things we did in life, but our lives will in large part be remembered for how we did those things. What we do matters, but how we do it matters even more.
And so we look to the past in honor of those who have taught us much through their service, sacrifice, and good acts. And at the same time, we look to the future, knowing our epitaphs are being written not only by what we are doing but by how we are doing those things today.
References:
1. Mark Twain, Eve’s Diary (New York: Harper & Brothers, 1906), 109.
2. Lloyd D. Newell, “What Life Is About,” Music & the Spoken Word, Apr. 3, 2011.